For moms who want to replace awkward sex talks with empowering conversations so they can raise safe, confident, empowered kids (before they leave home)
That's why I created Sex Ed CPR for Grownups so you can:
... have an open, honest, respectful and caring relationship with your kids.
The kind where they come to you first to learn the information rather than look it up on the internet or hear it from other kids in the schoolyard.
You love your children and you absolutely want them to grow into confident, compassionate, joyful, and emotionally balanced adults.
Of course, you do!
It’s why you’re here.
And I've got the perfect solution to help you overcome your fear of talking to your kids about sex and sexuality…
Now, you might think…
… I’ve got the book and there are tons of resources online, why do I need the help of a sex educator?
Well, I’ll tell you...
There’s so much conflicting information and plain bad advice out there…
… not to mention the time it takes to sort through it all.
AND… are people on the internet really qualified to teach you how to talk to your kids about sex?
This is my life -- I spend every day educating adults on sex and sexuality, how to talk to their kids about sex, and I help couples and singles to enjoy a thrilling sex life.
And now I want to help you get the best, most well-rounded, honest, and raw information you can access -- and isn’t available anywhere else.
And get real-time answers to questions as they come up...
… because Google can’t help you with that.
They force you to take a hard look at yourself in the mirror every day and ask if you’re being the best role model for them.
I sure do…
It’s why I became a board-certified sexologist and sex and relationship coach.
I was raised in a Catholic home and got no sex education… none. I had to learn everything as an adult -- even how to feel comfortable with my own body!
As a mother of two girls, I vowed my daughters would be raised in a sex-informed house. I want them to have healthy self-esteem and confidence as adults.
And I’m here to help you reduce the fear, anxiety and shame (if you had a negative role model like I did) around this topic and gain the confidence to talk with your kids about all things sex.
Even as a sex educator my daughters still stump me and catch me off guard sometimes.
It’s why I know how important it is to learn from someone who’s been around the block and can help you handle awkward moments with confidence…
… and a little humor (it helps to laugh about it sometimes).
I’ve been teaching sex education to adults for almost a decade now. And the transformations I've witnessed are incredible.
Just ask this parent...
"I can communicate with them better, respecting their views or choices. I try to be positive, supportive, and understanding. [...] I have spoken with my kids about topics I never thought I would, and it is a great feeling."
Parents like E.L. who were unsure and uncomfortable side-stepped their anxiety...
… and became positive role models for their kids.
It’s why you need to discover how to recognize and learn…
Because raising sex smart kids has benefits beyond just raising a confident child…
You NEED to be a resource for your kids so you can share your values and give them the information they need to make good decisions.
Without your love and guidance, they’ll seek out what they want to know from the internet, porn, media and other kids (who are most likely receiving misinformation or no information).
And it’s not as hard as you think to have these ongoing conversations.
I will guide you through finding and recognizing these moments of cognitive insight, and their teachable moments.
And… the earlier you start, the more impact these conversations will have.
Because a child with little to no information becomes an adolescent with little to no information. And then becomes an adult who is reckless, ashamed or unable to set boundaries that feel good.
It’s why I created this course for you.
And it’s also why...
… I advocate for open and honest communication between parents and kids.
… and encourage you to read this page in its entirety.
Your children need information and values from you to make good decisions and create healthy relationships.
Avoiding it doesn’t make it magically go away. No one else is going to this for you - certainly not like you can.
And if you wait for them to come to you with questions it might already be too late.
You need to take the first step and get the conversation started.
If you’re ready to get a wee bit uncomfortable for the sake of your children, then this is for you.
If you want to…
… and a whole lot more! Then this course is for you.
But if you…
Then this course probably isn’t for you.
Here’s just some of what you’ll learn in this four-week course.
You’ll learn how to handle difficult situations like …
These are NOT easy topics and circumstances to undertake -- and it’s okay if you don’t know how to talk to your kids about this stuff.
They didn’t come with a manual!
But the more comfortable you are… and the more you can normalize sex… the easier it is to talk about it.
And the less taboo it is.
It’s why I help you prepare for these conversations. So when they arise, you don’t run to your room, curl up in a ball and wait for it to pass (and maybe cry a little)…
… or accidentally blurt out an answer that’s not true.
Rather, you will confidently address your child’s curiosity with correct -- and age-appropriate -- information.
And how comforting to have a REAL person to talk to about it with…
… and let you know these feelings of sheer terror are normal.
You will have someone to gently guide you through the tricky parts and prepare you to handle them when they come up.
You can’t get that with a voiceless article on the internet.
And asking other parents in a forum might also lead you astray because their values may not be your values.
If You’re Beyond Ready To Join Me…
Here’s everything you’ll get in the course
Live Group Video Calls for each module -- 60 to 90 minutes each
Homework between each call so you can put what you learn into practice.
Unlimited Voxer access to me -- because sometimes you need to put out an SOS!
Small group setting -- limited to keep the calls intimate.
A private Facebook community where you can talk to me, other parents and caring adults.
Communication. Consent. Respect. Pleasure. Fantasy
These 5 are the basis of my book "Read Me: A Parental Primer for "The Talk" and a foundation for making "the talk" easier for everyone involved.
Sexuality is intertwined with healthy relationships. It’s not a one time talk, but an ongoing conversation, and there’s never a “perfect time” to bring it up.
I’ll teach you how to pepper it into regular conversations and use tv and movies, and other life events, as teachable moments.
And you’ll uncover what you’re modeling for your kids and your level of transparency -- for example, do you let your kids see you fight with your partner and how do you talk about relationships?
Kids are curious about their own bodies and will naturally explore them.
In this module, we’ll discuss growth and development and what is “normal” exploration versus excessive touching.
We’ll also cover gender dynamics and how hormones play a role in shifting emotions & reactivity (emotional self-regulation and emotional intelligence).
I’m confident you’ll get more than you bargained for from this course. You’ll leave with the confidence of a chihuahua taking on a grizzly bear to talk openly with your kids and develop a strong bond with them. You want the best for your children… and I want that for you too.