Are you experiencing ED?

What if you could...

  • Have sex again without stress and anxiety
  • Get the result you want and feel confident every time
  • Feel better about yourself as a man
  • Feel more in control of your body

In many instances, men avoid sex because they're afraid of the pressure to perform.

Not being able to get or maintain an erection or ejaculate when you want can leave you feeling all the feels - and none of them particularly good.

I mean, I get it. Look at masculinity today and what it tells us about "being a man" - You have to be 12-inches long, rock hard, and go all night. If this isn't happening, you feel like less of a man. This idea alone can cause a lot of stress in relationships, not just when ED happens.

The common concerns I hear from men with ED can be summed up in three words: stress, shame, and embarrassment. These often prevent men from seeking help, which can lead to further isolation and frustration.


CurED - Online ED Coaching for Men

Introducing CurED

CurED Coaching can help you to overcome these struggles.

With this program, you have access to professional help and support that will allow you to feel more in control of your lives. With my help, you can learn how to get back to enjoying sex with your partner.

Why CurED?

Maybe you feel like you're not living up to your own expectations or those of your partner. Maybe you're tired of relying on or spending money on medication.

Whatever the reason, CurED is here to help. I can provide you with all the information and support you need to make a successful recovery. With my help, you'll be able to have sex again without stress or anxiety, your partner will feel more secure in your relationship, and you'll feel more in control of your body than ever before.

CurED helps you with realistic expectations. I understand that everyone recovers at their own pace and that there is no one-size-fits-all solution. I'll work with you to create a personalized plan that meets your specific needs. With my help and your effort, you'll be able to overcome ED and get your life back on track. 

Uncovering, Unpacking, Unlearning, & Unleashing

When you discover what is actually holding you back (it’s probably not what you think), then you'll have the power to confidently initiate sex again, and reconnect or regain intimacy with your partner. 

Once you know your underlying blocks, you'll never again have to struggle with what holds you back. You won't have to rely on prescription drugs, experimental treatments, or other untested “quick fixes” that cost so much money and leave you still feeling hopeless.

I'm Lanae St.John, DHS, CSC, ACS

...and I'm a board-certified sexologist with the American College of Sexologists and a certified sex coach. I help men with ED get their libido back, feel confident in their sexual prowess, be able to please their partner, and enjoy a “regular”, “normal” sex life with their wife or partner.

Through COVID, my private practice coaching clients 1:1 exploded and so far I have a 100% success rate helping men who have ED find intimacy, connection, and freedom from performance anxiety they desire without the use of pharmaceuticals. 

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Who is CurED for?

Men who grew up with terrible messages about relationships and intimacy

Often men are unaware of the harmful messages they were exposed to during their childhood. CurED coaching is designed to help men learn healthy ways of relating to their bodies and their partners.

Men who have worries about their body image or their size

Men who are concerned with this can often find it difficult to enjoy sex and intimacy. CurED coaching shows men how to deconstruct these concerns in a healthy way, and overcome the obstacles that have been holding them back.

Men who don't want to rely on blue pills anymore

Men who rely on blue pills will find CurED coaching helpful.  The program is designed to help men learn how to connect with themselves without relying on medication. Learn the secrets that will have you enjoying sex again like you used to.

Act Now!

Since this coaching is going to be customized and one-on-one, I only have so many time slots available on my calendar so I'm going to have to limit the number of spots. If you're interested, please book your consultation call right away before it fills up.

What You Get with CurED

CurED Coaching is a safe, private, zoom-based, 1:1 coaching service that offers personalized guidance to men who are struggling with erectile dysfunction. 

It solves your desire to connect sexually so you no longer have to hold back from showing affection to your wife/partner.

one-on-one coaching

Private coaching so participants can get the most out of the program, which is divided into four phases - Investigate, Incarnate, Invigorate, and Integrate. 

customized "homework" assignments

These assignments help participants apply the concepts they learn in the program to their own lives.

affirmation cards

These are a great way to remind yourself of your goals and accomplishments. They can also help you stay positive and motivated throughout your journey. 


bonus PDF guide for spouses/partners

In addition to the coaching, participants also receive a PDF guide for their spouses or partners. This guide outlines what to do, and not do, while their partner is in the program, so that loved ones can be supportive of the work.

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What do the guys have to say?

*Their names have been changed to protect their privacy.


"I am now having tremendously good sex with my partner, and no erectile problems at all. I definitely recommend Lanae to anyone having sexual issues they need to address."



"Lanae is very gentle, yet confident with how she approaches these topics and doesn't make you feel embarrassed for not knowing more. She really helps you feel comfortable in a topic that has been stigmatized for so long and that makes all the difference."




"This knowledge has allowed me to at least open the door to new sexual experiences that, due to my upbringing had previously been an obstacle."


If you're ready to start enjoying your sex life again, contact us today to learn more about CurED coaching. Let's overcome the obstacles that have been holding you back. This one-on-one coaching is the perfect way to get started. 


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